Where did my Mautic Amazon SES host name box go... from my Mautic Email Screen?

PHP 7.4
Mautic 3.2 being set up from scratch.

When setting up the AWS SES smtp email to work on my mautic, I cannot find the AWS SES host box…has it moved since that video… can anyone tell me whrere I should look,

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shows box for host name when using OTHER SMTP and the Host box is very clearly there.

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shows missing host name box… cannot be found anywhere.

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shows live hostname box in this video…

So if anyone has any idea where i might find the Amazon SES hostbox that i need to enter the host ane into I would greatly appreciate it…

Is it possible that a moderator could move this post to support where it may get more views and possibly push me in the right direction.

It seems this input box i have been searching for no longer exists on the Version 3.0… but I still cannot get the button to send as it give the below long error printed just below the button and my php error files (shown below) says its a TLS error being blocked by the certificate.

Unable to connect with TLS encryption Log data: ++ Starting Mautic\EmailBundle\Swiftmailer\Transport\AmazonTransport << 220-server9.talegahost.com ESMTP Exim 4.93 #2 Thu, 21 Jan 2021 20:15:28 -0800 220-We do not authorize the use of this system to transport unsolicited, 220 and/or bulk e-mail. >> EHLO luxuryhomessandiego.net << 250-server2.talegahost.com Hello luxuryhomessandiego.net [45.249.91.91] 250-SIZE 52428800 250-8BITMIME 250-PIPELINING 250-AUTH PLAIN LOGIN 250-STARTTLS 250 HELP >> STARTTLS << 220 TLS go ahead !! Unable to connect with TLS encryption (code: 0)
++ Starting Mautic\EmailBundle\Swiftmailer\Transport\AmazonTransport << 220-server2.tallenhost.com ESMTP Exim 4.93 #2 Thu, 21 Jan 2021 20:15:28 -0800 220-We do not authorize the use of this system to transport unsolicited, 220 and/or bulk e-mail. >> EHLO luxuryhomessandiego.net << 250-server2.tallenhost.com Hello luxuryhomessandiego.net [45.249.91.91] 250-SIZE 52428800 250-8BITMIME 250-PIPELINING 250-AUTH PLAIN LOGIN 250-STARTTLS 250 HELP >> STARTTLS << 220 TLS go ahead !! Unable to connect with TLS encryption (code: 0)

This link had the same exact problem and had to downgrade from 5.6 to 5.5 (long time back) when this error began showing up… sure do not want to do that… but its showing his exact problem and tons of others are getting this exact same error complaining about a TLS security problem…

Scroll way down the page to the Update 1 to see his comments. TLS is forced on my by Mautic…

My php error file gets this error over and over with the button push.
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[23-Jan-2021 01:37:11 UTC] PHP Warning: stream_socket_enable_crypto(): Peer certificate CN=server9.tallenhost.com' did not match expected CN=email-smtp.us-east-1.amazonaws.com’ in /home/lrsdone/public_html/vendor/swiftmailer/swiftmailer/lib/classes/Swift/Transport/StreamBuffer.php on line 94

I see tons of this error all over the web with other mautic and many others…
Appears to be related to something it does not like in my security certificate…
I tried removing the certificate to see if it will go thur and now it won’t let me into the Mautic control panel saying the “CSRF” is not matching… Is it normal to be locked out of Mautic when you temp remove the certificate… I installed it on an unsecure site and it ran fine… won’t even allow me to use Forgot password… I removed the cert to see if that is what is blocking me… as the php error log says…